Parents' Corner : Must Read Article

1. Don't spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for - I'm only testing you.
2. Don't be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it. It makes me feel secure.
3. Don't let me form bad habits. I have to rely on you to detect them in the early stages.
4. Don't make me feel smaller than I am. It only makes me behave stupidly "big".
5. Don't correct me in front of people if you can help it. I'll take much more notice if you talk quietly with me in private.
6. Don't make me feel that my mistakes are sins. It upsets my sense of values.
7. Don't protect me from consequences. I need to learn the painful ways sometimes.
8. Don't be too upset when I say, "I hate you". Sometimes it isn't you I hate but your power to thwart me.
9. Don't take too much notice of my small ailments. Sometimes they get me the attention I need.
10. Don't nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf.
11. Don't forget that I cannot explain myself as well as I would like. That is why I am not always accurate.
12. Don't put me off when I ask questions. If you do, you will find that I stop asking questions and seek my information elsewhere.
13. Don't be inconsistent. That completely confuses me and makes me lose faith in you.
14. Don't tell me my fears are silly. They are terribly real and you can do much to reassure me if you try to understand.
15. Don't ever suggest that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me too great a shock when I discover that you are neither.
16. Don't ever think it is beneath your dignity to apologize to me. An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm towards you.
17. Don't forget I love to experiment. I couldn't get along without it, so please put up with it.
18. Don't forget how quickly I am growing up. It must be very difficult for you to keep pace with me, but please do try.
19. Don't forget that I don't thrive without lots of love and understanding, but I don't need to tell you, do I?
20. Please keep yourself fit and healthy. I need you.

以上是從"science workshop"的網站抄錄下來的，說是一封小朋友寫給爸媽的便箋。閱後覺得很精警，心想：如果世上的爸媽都能從小朋友的心出發，從他們的眼睛去看他們的世界，那麼小朋友無論在心智或體格上，定可於愉快的環境下成長。

其實與任何人(或狗狗)相處，我們也應懂得站在別人的角度，懂得顧及別人的感受。願炸彈人能學會這種處世之道，而領袖和我就能做到以上的20點，尤其是第20點…